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小屁孩成长故事(21):情商培养案例(1)珍惜孩子的情感变化

Sun, 11 Mar 2007 02:24:53 +0800

妈妈,你白天太辛苦了!

2006年9月24日

早上醒来,小屁孩的妈妈发现小屁孩壮壮http://www.xiaopihai.61bay.com/正瞪着一双大眼睛,深情的注视着妈妈.看见妈妈睁开了眼睛，小屁孩的眼睛眯成了一条缝，笑眯眯的对妈妈说：“ 妈妈，你醒了呀？”妈妈看着小屁孩快乐的笑容，沉醉地笑着说：“你早就睡醒了呀？宝贝！”小屁孩甜甜的点点头。妈妈问道：“那你在想什么呀？”小屁孩说：“我在看你，我在看你睡觉的样子，我还看到你的眼球在来回的转动。”妈妈瞪大了眼睛故做惊奇的问：“真的呀？那你为什么不把妈妈叫醒呢？”小屁孩用手抚摩着妈妈的脸说：“可怜的妈妈，我爱你，你白天太辛苦了！你的腰还疼呢，我就没有叫醒你！”妈妈听了真没有想到儿子会这么的懂事，感动的流出了眼泪。一个才满4岁的孩子，竟然说出这样的话，做出这样的事情，真是不敢相信。妈妈紧紧地抱住小屁孩说：“孩子，妈妈爱你，你太让妈妈感动了！妈妈不辛苦，因为有你妈妈快乐着呢！你看妈妈是不是笑的很开心很幸福呀？”小屁孩抿嘴笑着并闭上眼睛，趴在妈妈的怀抱里喃呢着：“妈妈，我也很幸福！因为我和你在一起！”说着并且用力的抱了下妈妈。

[教子心得]小屁孩壮壮http://www.xiaopihai.61bay.com/是一个很懂道理的孩子，很知道理解他人的痛苦，也是个感情比较细腻丰富的孩子。对于妈妈的腰疼，他给予孩子的心理的关心，这个时候妈妈没有让小屁孩壮壮的情感付之东流，而是抓住了孩子情感释放的关键时候，给予鼓励和回应，让孩子对关心他人的初步萌芽得到健康的成长。加深了孩子与母亲的情感距离。使亲子关系更为融洽，同时更促进了孩子情商的发展。

生活中你和孩子也会有很多这样的事情发生，只要你留心孩子的感情变化，并让孩子的情感得以释放和宣泄，并对于孩子的情感给以肯定和鼓励，孩子的就会很懂事的。不要责备自己的孩子不懂事，从现在起，开始留心你孩子的每一点变化，你会发现你的孩子比小屁孩还要懂道理的多呢？

看了有什么意见呀？小屁孩壮壮http://www.xiaopihai.61bay.com/有更多的教子故事和心得和你分享和交流呢？不妨和我留言和我交流呀！也可以到《现代家庭教育群》群号：17052163 和这里的热爱家庭教育的爸爸妈妈们交流呀！看完了也不要忘记了给我献花哦！鼓励我哦！

爸爸想念我的宝宝

Sun, 11 Mar 2007 02:14:29 +0800

今天，嘉耀不用上学是吧！有没有听奶奶的话，我嘉耀要好好读书知道吗？爸爸虽然在远方，但爸爸想念您！祝福嘉耀身体健康！！！

参加豆豆生日聚会

Sun, 11 Mar 2007 00:44:53 +0800

下午刘泓易去沈老师那里写作文，晚上他还要参加豆豆的生日聚会。

今天他的作文写的比较短，有点诙谐，内容居然是吓唬女同学的事，说她抽屉里有猫，把女同学吓得半死！沈老师还给他个发表奖！

晚上，同学豆豆的生日宴会在华侨自助餐举行，本来请家长同去，我有事去不了，结果让他自己一个人去，估计肯定也很皮。而且因为今天一直头晕，没时间去买礼物，就把家里代别人买的小蚂蚁工坊让小刘当作礼物送了。虽然蚂蚁工坊对孩子来说是挺有意思的一件益智玩具，但在这个物质社会，显得小了点！说实话，对于很多事，我由衷地佩服很多家长，怎么有那么多精力替孩子做很多事情，我是有时连自己都照顾不过来啊！

关于七巧板的话题

Sun, 11 Mar 2007 00:42:31 +0800

今天因为睡眠严重不足，一整天都觉得人要趴下去的感觉。不过，早上照例无法睡得太迟，因为稍迟起床胃就痛的难受，自然会醒过来。

晕乎乎地坐在车里，我和刘泓易在建设小学大南校区下车，因为早上起床开了手机就发现书钊妈妈发来的短信，告诉我们圆圆妈妈星期六上午在教七巧板兴趣班。我相对于一些功利性太强的兴趣学习，我倒更愿意让刘泓易去多接触一些轻松而开发智力和挖掘潜力的小科技活动。

好不容易找到以后，试听了一节课，让小刘适应一下。课后问他的感觉，还不错！不过，他又开始太多的担心，怕双休日时间太紧凑，影响写作业。其实他的关键是提高效率，做事不要太磨蹭就行了！

这学期，刘泓易自己提出把书法班的课停掉，其实他也不是不喜欢，就是老担心时间不够，影响玩游戏的时间。不过，我也同意了！不要让孩子心理负担太重了！虽然我觉得他的练字也非常重要，因为一段时间以来，他写的字退步的很比较明显。

今天的事，挺感谢热心的书钊妈妈和圆圆妈妈的。

三八节,我给妈妈什么呀?

Sun, 11 Mar 2007 00:36:23 +0800

今天是“三八“国际妇女节,我才三个月,也是我的第一个节日.现在还是给妈妈祝贺吧!她那么艰难的生下了我!我长大了要好好谢谢她!伟大的女人,伟大的妈妈!我爱你!

快乐的一天

Sun, 11 Mar 2007 00:34:07 +0800

今天，爸爸领我去吃饭，我可高兴了．

长海重大灾难

Sun, 11 Mar 2007 00:20:14 +0800

前几天，长海县发生了特大灾难，因受贝加尔湖的风影响，长海县的天气突变，风力竟达到了7-8级，还有阵风达10级，令人汗颜的还不止这些，天空中还夹杂着雨雪，冰雹。那天是正月十五，家人送灯回来，恰巧停了电，一家六口只得守着一根蜡烛，面面相觑，正为明天上学的事烦恼时，老师打电话通知我明天上午不上学，下午到校，我就和哥哥傻乎乎的走到了学校，可刚一到学校，就被老大爷赶了出来，害得我和哥哥只得按原路走回去，一路上，我们发现路边树倒的倒，斜的斜，就连近百年的老树都被连根拔起，大长山岛后海的船不是被打沉，就是被击散，总之惨不忍睹。不过三叔还是聪明，把船迁到了前海，自然毫发无损了！！

谚语大全 4

Sun, 11 Mar 2007 00:12:32 +0800

Obedience is the first duty of a soldier军人以服从命令为天职。

Observation is the best teacher.观察是最好的老师。

Offense is the best defense.进攻是最好的防御。

Old friends and old wines are best.陈酒味醇，老友情深。

Old sin makes new shame.一失足成千古恨。

Once a man and twice a child.一次老，两次小。

Once a thief, always a thief.偷盗一次，做贼一世。

Once bitten, twice shy.一朝被蛇咬，十年怕井绳。

One boy is a boy, two boys half a boy, three boys no boy.

一个和尚挑水喝，两个和尚抬水喝，三个和尚没水喝。

One cannot put back the clock.时钟不能倒转。

One eyewitness is better than ten hearsays.百闻不如一见。

One false move may lose the game.一着不慎，满盘皆输。

One good turn deserves another.行善积德。

One hour today is worth two tomorrow.争分夺秒效率高。

One man‘s fault is other man‘s lesson.前车之鉴。

One never loses anything by politeness.讲礼貌不吃亏。

One swallow does not make a summ一燕不成夏。

One‘s words reflect one‘s thinking.言为心声。

Out of debt, out of danger.无债一身轻。

Out of office, out of danger.无官一身轻。

Out of sight, out of mind.眼不见，心为静。

Patience is the best remedy.忍耐是良药。

Penny wise, pound foolish.贪小便宜吃大亏。

Plain dealing is praised more than practiced.

正大光明者，说到的多，做到的少。

Please the eye and plague the heart. 贪图一时快活，必然留下隐祸。

Pleasure comes through toil.苦尽甘来。

Pour water into a sieve.竹篮子打水一场空。

Practice makes perfect.熟能生巧。

Praise is not pudding.恭维话不能当饭吃。

Praise makes good men better, and bad men worse.

好人越夸越好，坏人越夸越糟。

Prefer loss to unjust gain.宁可吃亏，不贪便宜。

Prevention is better than cure.预防胜于治疗。

Pride goes before, and shame comes after.骄傲使人落后。

Promise is debt.一诺千金。

Proverbs are the daughters of daily experience.谚语是日常经验的结晶。

Pull the chestnut out of fire.火中取栗。

Put the cart before the horse.本末倒置。

Put your shoulder to the wheel.鼎力相助。

Reading enriches the mind.开卷有益。

Reading is to the mind while exercise to the body.读书健脑，运动强身。

Respect yourself, or no one else will respect you.要人尊敬，必须自重。

Rome is not built in a day冰冻三尺，非一日之寒。

Saying is one thing and doing another.言行不一。

Seeing is believing.眼见为实。 Seek the truth from facts.实事求是。

Send a wise man on an errand, and say nothing to him.

智者当差，不用交代。

Set a thief to catch a thief.以贼捉贼。

Short accounts make long friends.好朋友勤算账。

Something is better than nothing.聊胜于无。

Soon learn, soon forgotten.学得快，忘得快。

Soon ripe, soon rotten.熟得快，烂得快。

Speech is silver, silence is gold.能言是银，沉默是金。

Still water run deep.静水常深。

Strike the iron while it is hot.趁热打铁。

Success belongs to the persevering.坚持就是胜利。

Take things as they come.既来之，则安之。

Talking mends no holes. 空谈无补。

Talk of the devil and he will appear.说曹操，曹操就到。

Tall trees catch much wind.树大招风。

Teach others by your example.躬亲示范。

The best hearts are always the bravest.无私者无畏。

The best man stumbles.伟人也有犯错时。

The cat shuts its eyes when stealing.掩耳盗铃。

The danger past and God forgotten.过河拆桥。

The darkest hour is nearest the dawn.黎明前的黑暗。

The darkest place is under the candlestick.烛台底下最暗。

The devil knows many things because he is old.老马识途。

The devil sometimes speaks the truth魔鬼有时也会说真话。

The die is cast.木已成舟。 The early bird catches the worm.早起的鸟儿有虫吃。

The end justifies the means.只要目的正当，可以不择手段。

The end makes all equal.死亡面前，人人平等。

The eye is bigger than the belly.贪多嚼不烂。

The farthest way about is the nearest way home.抄近路反而绕远路。

The finest diamond must be cut.玉不琢，不成器。

The fire is the test of gold, adversity of strong man.烈火验真金，艰难磨意志。

The first step is the only difficulty.迈出第一步是最艰难的。

The fox knew too much, that‘s how he lost his tail.机关算尽太聪明，反误了卿卿性命。

The fox preys farthest from home.兔子不吃窝边草。

The frog in the well knows nothing of the great ocean.坐井观天。

The grass is greener on the other side.这山望着那山高。

The greatest talkers are always least doers.语言的巨人总是行动的矮子。

The higher up, the greater the fall.爬得高，摔得惨。

The leopard cannot change its spots.本性难移。

The more noble, the more humble.人越高尚，越谦虚。

The more wit, the less courage. 初生牛犊不怕虎。

The outsider sees the most of the game.旁观者清。

The pen is mightier than the sword.笔能杀人。

The pot calls the kettle black.五十步笑百步。

There are spots in the sun.太阳也有黑点。

There are two sides to every question.问题皆有两面。

There is a skeleton in the cupboard.家家有本难念的经。

There is kindness to be found everywhere.人间处处有温情。

There is no general rule without some exception.任何法规均有例外。

There is no medicine against death.没有长生不老药。

There is no place like home.金窝银窝不如咱的狗窝。

There is no royal road to learning.书山有路勤为径，学海无涯苦作舟。

The ｓｔｙｌｅ is the man.字如其人。

The tongue is not steel, yet it cuts.人言可畏。

The water that bears the boat is the same that swallows it up.

水能载舟，亦能覆舟。

The wise man knows he knows nothing, the fool thinks he knows all.清者自清，浊者自浊。 The wolf has a winning game when the shepherds quarrel. 螳螂捕蝉，黄雀在后

The world is a ladder for some to go up and others to go down.世界如阶梯，有人上有人下。

The world is but a little place, after all.海内存知己，天涯若比邻。

Think twice before you do.三思而后行。

Things at the worst will mend.否极泰来。

Time and tide wait for no man.时不我待。

Time cures all things.时间是医治一切创伤的良药。

Time flies.光阴似箭。 Time is money.时间就是金钱。

Time lost cannot be won again.时光流逝，不可复得。

Time past cannot be called back again.时间不能倒流。

Time tries all.路遥知马力，日久见人心。

Tit for tat is fair play.人不犯我，我不犯人；人若犯我，我必犯人。

To err is human.人非圣贤，孰能无过。

To know everything is to know nothing.什么都知道，一如什么都不知道。

To know oneself is true progress.人贵有自知之明。

Tomorrow never comes.我生待明日，万事成蹉跎。

Too much familiarity breeds contempt.过分熟悉会使人互不服气。

Too much knowledge makes the head bald.学问太多催人老。

Too much liberty spills all.自由放任，一事无成。

Too much praise is a burden.过多夸奖，反成负担。

To save time is to lengthen life.节约时间就是延长生命。

Touch pitch, and you will be defiled.常在河边走，哪有不湿鞋。

Troubles never come singly.福无双至，祸不单行。

Truth never grows old.真理永存。

Turn over a new leaf.洗心革面，改过自新。

Two dogs strive for a bone, and a third runs away with it.

鹬蚌相争，渔翁得利。

Two heads are better than one.一个好汉三个帮。

Two of a trade seldom agree.同行是冤家。

Two wrongs do not make a right.别人错了，不等于你对了。

Unity is strength.团结就是力量。

Unpleasant advice is a good medicine.忠言逆耳利于行。

Until all is over one‘s ambition never dies.不到黄河心不死。

Venture a small fish to catch a great one.吃小亏占大便宜。

Virtue is fairer far than beauty.美德远远胜过美貌。

Walls have ears.小心隔墙有耳。

Wash your dirty linen at home.家丑不可外扬。

Water dropping day by day wears the hardest rock away.滴水穿石。

Wealth is nothing without health.失去健康，钱再多也没用。

We know not what is good until we have lost it.好东西，失去了才明白。

Well begun is half done.好的开始，是成功的一半。

We never know the worth of water till the well is dry.井干方知水可贵。

We shall never have friends if we expect to find them without fault

.欲求完美无缺的朋友必然成为孤家寡人。

We should never remember the benefits we have offered nor forget the favor received.

自己的好事别去提，别人的恩惠要铭记。

Whatever you do, do with all your might.不管做什么，都要一心一意

What is learned in the cradle is carried to the grave.儿时所学，终生难忘。

What‘s done cannot be undone.生米煮成熟饭了。

What‘s lost is lost.失者不可复得。What we do willingly is easy.愿者不难。When in Rome, do as the Romans do.入国问禁，入乡随俗。

When everybody‘s somebody then nobody‘s anybody.人人都伟大，世间没豪杰。

When sorrow is asleep, wake it not.伤心旧事别重提。

When sorrows come, they come not single spies, but in battalions.

新仇旧恨，齐上心头。

When the fox preaches, take care of your geese.黄鼠狼给鸡拜年，没安好心。

When wine is in truth, wit is out.酒后吐真言。

Where there is a will, there is a way.有志者事竟成。

Where there is life, there is hope.留得青山在，不怕没柴烧。

Where there is smoke, there is fire.事出有因。

While the priest climbs a post, the devil climbs ten.道高一尺，魔高一丈。

Who chatters to you, will chatter of you.搬弄口舌者必是小人。

Whom the gods love die young.好人不长命。

Wise man have their mouths in their hearts, fools have their hearts in their mouths.

智者嘴在心里，愚者心在嘴里。

Work makes the workman.勤工出巧匠。 Wet behind the ears.乳臭未干。

You cannot burn the candle at both ends.蜡烛不能两头点，精力不可过分耗。

You cannot eat your cake and have it.鱼与熊掌，不可得兼。

You can take a horse to the water but you cannot make him drink. 强扭的瓜不甜

。 You may know by a handful the whole sack.由一斑可知全貌。

You never know what you can till you try.是驴子是马，拉出来遛遛。

谚语大全 4

Sun, 11 Mar 2007 00:12:32 +0800

Obedience is the first duty of a soldier军人以服从命令为天职。

Observation is the best teacher.观察是最好的老师。

Offense is the best defense.进攻是最好的防御。

Old friends and old wines are best.陈酒味醇，老友情深。

Old sin makes new shame.一失足成千古恨。

Once a man and twice a child.一次老，两次小。

Once a thief, always a thief.偷盗一次，做贼一世。

Once bitten, twice shy.一朝被蛇咬，十年怕井绳。

One boy is a boy, two boys half a boy, three boys no boy.

一个和尚挑水喝，两个和尚抬水喝，三个和尚没水喝。

One cannot put back the clock.时钟不能倒转。

One eyewitness is better than ten hearsays.百闻不如一见。

One false move may lose the game.一着不慎，满盘皆输。

One good turn deserves another.行善积德。

One hour today is worth two tomorrow.争分夺秒效率高。

One man‘s fault is other man‘s lesson.前车之鉴。

One never loses anything by politeness.讲礼貌不吃亏。

One swallow does not make a summ一燕不成夏。

One‘s words reflect one‘s thinking.言为心声。

Out of debt, out of danger.无债一身轻。

Out of office, out of danger.无官一身轻。

Out of sight, out of mind.眼不见，心为静。

Patience is the best remedy.忍耐是良药。

Penny wise, pound foolish.贪小便宜吃大亏。

Plain dealing is praised more than practiced.

正大光明者，说到的多，做到的少。

Please the eye and plague the heart. 贪图一时快活，必然留下隐祸。

Pleasure comes through toil.苦尽甘来。

Pour water into a sieve.竹篮子打水一场空。

Practice makes perfect.熟能生巧。

Praise is not pudding.恭维话不能当饭吃。

Praise makes good men better, and bad men worse.

好人越夸越好，坏人越夸越糟。

Prefer loss to unjust gain.宁可吃亏，不贪便宜。

Prevention is better than cure.预防胜于治疗。

Pride goes before, and shame comes after.骄傲使人落后。

Promise is debt.一诺千金。

Proverbs are the daughters of daily experience.谚语是日常经验的结晶。

Pull the chestnut out of fire.火中取栗。

Put the cart before the horse.本末倒置。

Put your shoulder to the wheel.鼎力相助。

Reading enriches the mind.开卷有益。

Reading is to the mind while exercise to the body.读书健脑，运动强身。

Respect yourself, or no one else will respect you.要人尊敬，必须自重。

Rome is not built in a day冰冻三尺，非一日之寒。

Saying is one thing and doing another.言行不一。

Seeing is believing.眼见为实。 Seek the truth from facts.实事求是。

Send a wise man on an errand, and say nothing to him.

智者当差，不用交代。

Set a thief to catch a thief.以贼捉贼。

Short accounts make long friends.好朋友勤算账。

Something is better than nothing.聊胜于无。

Soon learn, soon forgotten.学得快，忘得快。

Soon ripe, soon rotten.熟得快，烂得快。

Speech is silver, silence is gold.能言是银，沉默是金。

Still water run deep.静水常深。

Strike the iron while it is hot.趁热打铁。

Success belongs to the persevering.坚持就是胜利。

Take things as they come.既来之，则安之。

Talking mends no holes. 空谈无补。

Talk of the devil and he will appear.说曹操，曹操就到。

Tall trees catch much wind.树大招风。

Teach others by your example.躬亲示范。

The best hearts are always the bravest.无私者无畏。

The best man stumbles.伟人也有犯错时。

The cat shuts its eyes when stealing.掩耳盗铃。

The danger past and God forgotten.过河拆桥。

The darkest hour is nearest the dawn.黎明前的黑暗。

The darkest place is under the candlestick.烛台底下最暗。

The devil knows many things because he is old.老马识途。

The devil sometimes speaks the truth魔鬼有时也会说真话。

The die is cast.木已成舟。 The early bird catches the worm.早起的鸟儿有虫吃。

The end justifies the means.只要目的正当，可以不择手段。

The end makes all equal.死亡面前，人人平等。

The eye is bigger than the belly.贪多嚼不烂。

The farthest way about is the nearest way home.抄近路反而绕远路。

The finest diamond must be cut.玉不琢，不成器。

The fire is the test of gold, adversity of strong man.烈火验真金，艰难磨意志。

The first step is the only difficulty.迈出第一步是最艰难的。

The fox knew too much, that‘s how he lost his tail.机关算尽太聪明，反误了卿卿性命。

The fox preys farthest from home.兔子不吃窝边草。

The frog in the well knows nothing of the great ocean.坐井观天。

The grass is greener on the other side.这山望着那山高。

The greatest talkers are always least doers.语言的巨人总是行动的矮子。

The higher up, the greater the fall.爬得高，摔得惨。

The leopard cannot change its spots.本性难移。

The more noble, the more humble.人越高尚，越谦虚。

The more wit, the less courage. 初生牛犊不怕虎。

The outsider sees the most of the game.旁观者清。

The pen is mightier than the sword.笔能杀人。

The pot calls the kettle black.五十步笑百步。

There are spots in the sun.太阳也有黑点。

There are two sides to every question.问题皆有两面。

There is a skeleton in the cupboard.家家有本难念的经。

There is kindness to be found everywhere.人间处处有温情。

There is no general rule without some exception.任何法规均有例外。

There is no medicine against death.没有长生不老药。

There is no place like home.金窝银窝不如咱的狗窝。

There is no royal road to learning.书山有路勤为径，学海无涯苦作舟。

The ｓｔｙｌｅ is the man.字如其人。

The tongue is not steel, yet it cuts.人言可畏。

The water that bears the boat is the same that swallows it up.

水能载舟，亦能覆舟。

The wise man knows he knows nothing, the fool thinks he knows all.清者自清，浊者自浊。 The wolf has a winning game when the shepherds quarrel. 螳螂捕蝉，黄雀在后

The world is a ladder for some to go up and others to go down.世界如阶梯，有人上有人下。

The world is but a little place, after all.海内存知己，天涯若比邻。

Think twice before you do.三思而后行。

Things at the worst will mend.否极泰来。

Time and tide wait for no man.时不我待。

Time cures all things.时间是医治一切创伤的良药。

Time flies.光阴似箭。 Time is money.时间就是金钱。

Time lost cannot be won again.时光流逝，不可复得。

Time past cannot be called back again.时间不能倒流。

Time tries all.路遥知马力，日久见人心。

Tit for tat is fair play.人不犯我，我不犯人；人若犯我，我必犯人。

To err is human.人非圣贤，孰能无过。

To know everything is to know nothing.什么都知道，一如什么都不知道。

To know oneself is true progress.人贵有自知之明。

Tomorrow never comes.我生待明日，万事成蹉跎。

Too much familiarity breeds contempt.过分熟悉会使人互不服气。

Too much knowledge makes the head bald.学问太多催人老。

Too much liberty spills all.自由放任，一事无成。

Too much praise is a burden.过多夸奖，反成负担。

To save time is to lengthen life.节约时间就是延长生命。

Touch pitch, and you will be defiled.常在河边走，哪有不湿鞋。

Troubles never come singly.福无双至，祸不单行。

Truth never grows old.真理永存。

Turn over a new leaf.洗心革面，改过自新。

Two dogs strive for a bone, and a third runs away with it.

鹬蚌相争，渔翁得利。

Two heads are better than one.一个好汉三个帮。

Two of a trade seldom agree.同行是冤家。

Two wrongs do not make a right.别人错了，不等于你对了。

Unity is strength.团结就是力量。

Unpleasant advice is a good medicine.忠言逆耳利于行。

Until all is over one‘s ambition never dies.不到黄河心不死。

Venture a small fish to catch a great one.吃小亏占大便宜。

Virtue is fairer far than beauty.美德远远胜过美貌。

Walls have ears.小心隔墙有耳。

Wash your dirty linen at home.家丑不可外扬。

Water dropping day by day wears the hardest rock away.滴水穿石。

Wealth is nothing without health.失去健康，钱再多也没用。

We know not what is good until we have lost it.好东西，失去了才明白。

Well begun is half done.好的开始，是成功的一半。

We never know the worth of water till the well is dry.井干方知水可贵。

We shall never have friends if we expect to find them without fault

.欲求完美无缺的朋友必然成为孤家寡人。

We should never remember the benefits we have offered nor forget the favor received.

自己的好事别去提，别人的恩惠要铭记。

Whatever you do, do with all your might.不管做什么，都要一心一意

What is learned in the cradle is carried to the grave.儿时所学，终生难忘。

What‘s done cannot be undone.生米煮成熟饭了。

What‘s lost is lost.失者不可复得。What we do willingly is easy.愿者不难。When in Rome, do as the Romans do.入国问禁，入乡随俗。

When everybody‘s somebody then nobody‘s anybody.人人都伟大，世间没豪杰。

When sorrow is asleep, wake it not.伤心旧事别重提。

When sorrows come, they come not single spies, but in battalions.

新仇旧恨，齐上心头。

When the fox preaches, take care of your geese.黄鼠狼给鸡拜年，没安好心。

When wine is in truth, wit is out.酒后吐真言。

Where there is a will, there is a way.有志者事竟成。

Where there is life, there is hope.留得青山在，不怕没柴烧。

Where there is smoke, there is fire.事出有因。

While the priest climbs a post, the devil climbs ten.道高一尺，魔高一丈。

Who chatters to you, will chatter of you.搬弄口舌者必是小人。

Whom the gods love die young.好人不长命。

Wise man have their mouths in their hearts, fools have their hearts in their mouths.

智者嘴在心里，愚者心在嘴里。

Work makes the workman.勤工出巧匠。 Wet behind the ears.乳臭未干。

You cannot burn the candle at both ends.蜡烛不能两头点，精力不可过分耗。

You cannot eat your cake and have it.鱼与熊掌，不可得兼。

You can take a horse to the water but you cannot make him drink. 强扭的瓜不甜

。 You may know by a handful the whole sack.由一斑可知全貌。

You never know what you can till you try.是驴子是马，拉出来遛遛。

谚语大全 2

Sun, 11 Mar 2007 00:09:19 +0800

Each bird love to hear himself sing.孤芳自赏。

Early to bed and early to rise makes a man healthy, wealthy and wise.

早睡早起身体好。 Easier said than done.说得容易，做得难。

Easy come, easy go.来也匆匆，去也匆匆。

Eat to live, but not live to eat.人吃饭是为了活着，但活着不是为了吃饭。

Empty vessels make the greatest sound.实磨无声空磨响满瓶不动半瓶摇。

is good when new, but friends when old.东西是新的好，朋友是老的亲。

Example is better then percept. 说一遍，不如做一遍。

Experience is the father of wisdom and memory the mother.

经验是智慧之父，记忆是智慧之母。

Experience must be bought.吃一堑，长一智。

Fact speak louder than words.事实胜于雄辩。

Failure is the mother of success.失败是成功之母。

False friends are worse than bitter enemies.明枪易躲，暗箭难防。

Far from eye, far from heart.眼不见，心不烦。

Far water does not put out near fire.远水救不了近火。

Faults are thick where love is thin.一朝情意淡，样样不顺眼。

Fear always springs from ignorance.恐惧源于无知。

Fields have eyes, and woods have ears.隔墙有耳。

Fire and water have no mercy.水火无情。

Fire is a good servant but a bad master.火是一把双刃剑。

First come, first served.先来后到。

First impressions are half the battle.初次见面，印象最深。

First think and then speak.先想后说。

Fools grow without watering.朽木不可雕。

Fool‘s haste is no speed.欲速则不达。

Fools has fortune.呆人有呆福。

Fools learn nothing from wise men, but wise men learn much from fools.

愚者不学无术，智者不耻下问。

Forbidden fruit is sweet.禁果格外香。

Fortune favors those who use their judgement.机遇偏爱善断之人。

Fortune knocks once at least at every man‘s gate.风水轮流转。

Four eyes see more than two.集思广益。

Friends agree best at distance.朋友之间也会保持距离。

Friends are thieves of time.朋友是时间的窃贼。

Friends must part.再好的朋友也有分手的时候。

Genius is nothing but labor and diligence. 天才不过是勤奋而已。

Give a dog a bad name and hang him.众口铄金，积毁销骨。

God helps those who help themselves.自助者天助。

Gold will not buy anything.黄金并非万能。

Good for good is natural, good for evil is manly.

以德报德是常理，以德报怨大丈夫。

Good health is over wealth.健康是最大的财富。

Good medicine for health tastes bitter to the mouth.良药苦口利于病。

Good watch prevents misfortune.谨慎消灾。

Great barkers are no biters.好狗不挡道。

Great hopes make great man.伟大的抱负造就伟大的人物。

Great minds think alike.英雄所见略同。

Great men have great faults.英雄犯大错误。

Great men‘s sons seldom do well.富不过三代。

Great trees are good for nothing but shade.大树底下好乘凉。

Great wits have short memories.贵人多忘事。

Greedy folks have long arms.心贪手长。

Guilty consciences make men cowards.做贼心虚。

Habit cures habit.心病还需心药医。

Handsome is he who does handsomely.行为漂亮才算美。

Happiness takes no account of time.欢乐不觉时光过。

Happy is he who owes nothing.要想活得痛快，身上不能背债。

Happy is the man who learns from the misfortunes of others.

吸取他人教训，自己才会走运。

Harm set, harm get.害人害己。Hear all parties.兼听则明。

Hasty love, soon cold.一见钟情难维久。

Health is better than wealth.健康胜过财富。

Health is happiness.健康就是幸福。

Heaven never helps the man who will not act.自己不动，叫天何用。

He is a fool that forgets himself.愚者忘乎所以。

He is a good friend that speaks well of us behind our backs.

背后说好话，才是真朋友。

He is a wise man who speaks little.聪明不是挂在嘴上。

He is lifeless that is faultless.只有死人才不犯错误。

He is not fit to command others that cannot command himself.

正人先正己。

He is not laughed at that laughs at himself first.自嘲者不会让人见笑。

He is wise that is honest.诚实者最明智。

He knows most who speaks least大智若愚。

He laughs best who laughs last.谁笑到最后，谁笑得最好。

He sets the fox to keep the geese.引狼入室。

He that climbs high falls heavily.爬得越高，摔得越重。

He that will not work shall not eat.不劳动者不得食。

He who does not advance loses ground.逆水行舟，不进则退。

He who makes constant complaint gets little compassion.

经常诉苦，没人同情。

He who makes no mistakes makes nothing.想不犯错误，就一事无成。

He who risks nothing gains nothing.收获与风险并存。

History repeats itself.历史往往重演。

Honesty is the best policy.做人诚信为本。

Hope for the best, but prepare for the worst.抱最好的愿望，做最坏的打算。

祖祖的生日

Sun, 11 Mar 2007 00:08:05 +0800

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谚语大全 1

Sun, 11 Mar 2007 00:07:12 +0800

A bad beginning makes a bad ending.不善始者不善终。

A bad workman always blames his tools.不会撑船怪河弯。

A bird in the hand is worth than two in the bush.

一鸟在手胜过双鸟在林。

A bad thing never dies.遗臭万年。

A boaster and a liar are cousins－german.吹牛与说谎本是同宗。

A bully is always a coward.色厉内荏

A burden of one‘s choice is not felt.爱挑的担子不嫌重。

A candle lights others and consumes itself.蜡烛照亮别人毁灭了自己。

Close mouth catches no flies.病从口入

A cat has 9 lives.猫有九条命。

A cat may look at a king.人人平等。

A constant guest is never welcome.常客令人厌。

Actions speak louder than words事实胜于雄辩。

Adversity leads to prosperity.穷则思变。

Adversity makes a man wise, not rich.逆境出人才。

A fair death honors the whole life.死得其所，流芳百世。

A faithful friend is hard to find.知音难觅。

A fall into a pit, a gain in your wit.吃一堑，长一智。

A fox may grow gray, but never good.江山易改，本性难移。

A friend in need is a friend indeed.患难见真情。

A friend is easier lost than found.得朋友难，失朋友易。

A friend is never known till a man has need.需要之时方知友。

A friend without faults will never be found.没有十全十美的

‘After you‘ is good manners.您先请”是礼貌。

A good beginning is half done.良好的开端是成功的一半。

A good beginning makes a good ending.善始者善终。

A good book is a good friend.好书如挚友。

A good book is the best of friends, the same today and forever.

一本好书，相伴一生。

A good conscience is a soft pillow.不做亏心事，不怕鬼叫门。

A good fame is better than a good face. 美名胜过美貌。

A good husband makes a good wife.夫善则妻贤。

A good medicine tastes bitter.良药苦口。

A good wife health is a man‘s best wealth.

妻贤身体好是男人最大的财富。

A great talker is a great liar.说大话者多谎言。

A light heart lives long.静以修身。

A hedge between keeps friendship green.君子之交淡如水。

A joke never gains an enemy but loses a friend.

戏谑不能化敌为友，只能使人失去朋友。

A leopard cannot change its spots.积习难改。

A liar is not believed when he speaks the truth说谎者即使讲真话也没人相信。

A little body often harbors a great soul.浓缩的都是精品。

A little knowledge is a dangerous thing.一知半解，自欺欺人。

A little pot is soon hot.狗肚子盛不得四两油。

All are brave when the enemy flies.敌人逃窜时，人人都成了勇士。

All good things come to an end.天下没有不散的筵席。

All rivers run into sea.海纳百川。All roads lead to Rome.条条大路通罗马。

All that ends well is well.结果好，就一切都好。

All that glitters is not gold.闪光的不一定都是金子。

All things are difficult before they are easy.凡事总是由难而易。

All work and no play makes Jack a dull boy.

只会用功不玩耍，聪明孩子也变傻。

A man becomes learned by asking questions.不耻下问才能有学问。

A man can do no more than he can.凡事都应量力而行。

A man cannot spin and reel at the same time.一心不能二用。

A man is known by his friends.什么人交什么朋友。

A man of words and not of deeds is like a garden full of weeds.

光说空话不做事，犹如花园光长刺。

A man without money is no man at all一分钱难倒英雄汉。

A merry heart goes all the way.心旷神怡，事事顺利。

A miss is as good as a mile. 失之毫厘，差之千里。

A mother‘s love never changes.母爱永恒。

An apple a day keeps the doctor away.一天一苹果，不用请医生。

A new broom sweeps clean.新官上任三把火。

An eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth.以眼还眼，以牙还牙。

An hour in the morning is worth two in the evening.一日之计在于晨。

An old dog cannot learn new tricks.老狗学不出新把戏。

An ounce of luck is better than a pound of wisdom.聪明才智，不如运气。

An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure.预防为主，治疗为辅。

A rolling stone gathers no moss.滚石不生苔，转业不聚财。

As a man sows, so he shall reap.种瓜得瓜，种豆得豆。

A single flower does not make a spring.一花独放不是春百花齐放春满园。

A snow year, a rich year.瑞雪兆丰年。

A sound mind in a sound body.健全的精神寓于健康的身体。

A still tongue makes a wise head.寡言者智。

A stitch in time saves nine.小洞不补，大洞吃苦。

A straight foot is not afraid of a crooked shoe.身正不怕影子斜。

A wise head makes a close mouth.真人不露相，露相非真人。

A word spoken is past recalling.一言既出，驷马难追。

A year‘s plan starts with spring.一年之计在于春。

A young idler, an old beggar.少壮不努力，老大徒伤悲。

Bad news has wings.好事不出门，坏事传千里。

Barking dogs seldom bite.吠犬不咬人。

Beauty lies in the love‘s eyes.情人眼里出西施。

Be swift to hear, slow to speak.听宜敏捷，言宜缓行。

Better late than never.不怕慢，单怕站。

Better to ask the way than go astray.问路总比迷路好。

Between friends all is common.朋友之间不分彼此。

Birds of a feather flock together.物以类聚，人以群分。

Blood is thicker than water. 血浓于水。Blood will have blood.血债血偿。

Books and friends should be few but good.读书如交友，应求少而精。

Business is business.公事公办。Cheats never prosper.骗人发不了财。

Business is the salt of life.事业是人生的第一需要。

By reading we enrich the mind, by conversation we polish it.

读书使人充实，交谈使人精明。

Cannot see the wood for the trees.一叶障目，不见泰山。

Care and diligence bring luck.谨慎和勤奋才能抓住机遇。

Caution is the parent of safety.小心驶得万年船。

Children are what the mothers are.耳濡目染，身教言传。

Choose an author as you choose a friend.择书如择友。

Come what may, heaven won‘t fall.做你的吧，天塌不下来。

Complacency is the enemy of study.学习的敌人是自己的满足。

Confidence in yourself is the first step on the road to success.

自信是走向成功的第一步。Content is better than riches.知足者常乐

Constant dripping wears away a stone.水滴石穿，绳锯木断。

Count one‘s chickens before they are hatched.蛋未孵先数雏。

Courtesy on one side only lasts not long.来而不往非礼也。

Creep before you walk.循序渐进。 Cry for the moon.海底捞月。

Custom is a second nature.习惯是后天养成的。

Custom makes all things easy.有个好习惯，事事皆不难。

Diamond cuts diamond.强中自有强中手。Do as the Romans do.入乡随俗。

Do as you would be done by.己所不欲，勿施于人。

Doing is better than saying.与其挂在嘴上，不如落实在行动上。

Do it now.机不可失，时不再来Do nothing by halves.凡事不可半途废。

Don‘t claim to know what you don‘t know.不要不懂装懂。

Don‘t have too many irons in the fire.不要揽事过多。

Don‘t make a mountain out of a molehill.不要小题大做。

Don‘t put off till tomorrow what should be done today.今日事，今日毕。

Don‘t put the cart before the horse.不要本末倒置。

Don‘t trouble trouble until trouble troubles you.不要自找麻烦。

Don‘t try to teach your grandmother to suck eggs.不要班门弄斧。

Do well and have well.善有善报。

今天我请客

Sat, 10 Mar 2007 23:55:52 +0800

盼星星盼月亮,终于盼星期五了,以前和爸妈说好了的十天吃一次米粉,今天第九天了,馋虫早就搅得我直流口水了，真希望明天快快来临。咦，爸妈怎么上街去了？是不是他们早就看出我的心思了？看来今晚吃米粉有戏。我连忙找个借口也跟了去。

到了街上，只见爸妈进了商店，准备买几个碗，妈妈选了半天才付钱，另外还买了些小东西，买好后就准备往家走了，这下可急死我了，他们怎么没说要去吃米粉啊，眼看着妈妈和向老师、赵老师还有叔叔们已经抬脚往家走了。这下我可着真急了，咦，平时挺细心的妈妈今天怎么就没看出我的心思啊？我呆在原地难过得连腿都挪不动了。走了几步的妈妈终于发现了我还没开步，转过头来似笑非笑地问道：“儿子，怎么还不走？还有什么没买吗？”真是明知故问，我气得真想哭，（别笑，我这个人啊，就是爱哭鼻子，可能是我的名字里有个女字还有三点水的缘故吧。）我呆在原地没动，妈妈来到我身边拉着我的手说：“快点走啊，我回去还要做饭呢，天都快黑了，”我急得涨红了脸，可又不好意思说我想吃米粉，眼看妈妈又要走了，我急得脱口而出：“妈妈，我想吃米粉。”“哟，原来是馋虫在捣乱哦，那你咋不早说呢？”顿了顿，妈妈又说：“可我们有这么多人，不可能你一个人去吃米粉，我们回去另外做饭吧，这可咋办呢？”其他那几个大人马上附和道：“是啊，你说咋办呢？”我一下呆住了，没想到妈妈会提出这个问题，赵老师又接着说道：“干脆你请我们得了，”请你们，我哪有钱啊，可如果我不请他们，今晚就吃不成米粉。没办法，为了吃米粉，只好忍痛割爱把我的压岁钱拿出来了。妈妈见我点了头，又说道：“你既然要请，那你就去挨个请啊，要不他们都要回了，”这可是我生平第一次请客，我豁出去了，硬着头走到他们面前，用只有我才能听得见的声音请了他们，可我发现他们都听见了，而且似乎还互相看了着笑了一下，真不知他们在搞什么，管他呢，只要我能吃到米粉，其他什么都顾不上了。妈妈看我请完了，又发令了：“ 既然是你请客，那你就去通知一下店老板，不过你得先数清人数，几个大人，几个小孩，”这我可不敢去，妈妈这不是为难我吗？我哪儿单独去过那地方啊，平时都是爸妈去办的这些事。可他们大人见我没动，马上说道：“怎么，你是舍不得吗？那我们只好回去了。”他们大人也真是，统一战线马上形成，眼看叔叔阿姨要往家走，爸妈也不帮我解围，妈妈还在一旁幸灾乐祸“你看，你不去，他们都要回了，以后别人会说平平请客是空欢喜，那多不好意思啊，”好嘛，我去还不成吗。大人们见我一步一步地挪向食店，都说：“对嘛，这样才能干嘛。”我一进店门，身后便传来了一阵欢呼：“耶，成功了。”敢情这是爸妈和其他那些人合计好了的呀？不知怎么回事，我觉得今天的米粉特别香，不过钱不是我付的，爸爸早就准备了零钞，早早地付了钱。

说话啊大家

Sat, 10 Mar 2007 23:48:11 +0800

哎请大家说话好吗